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I agree with Billie Eilish

I never thought I’d say this, but I think I might actually agree with the radical leftist singer, Billie Eilish. Let me explain.

Recently, a video of Eilish giving a speech after receiving an award went viral in conservative circles online. Eilish is speaking in a monotone, lifeless fashion, which is so very common amongst those who have rejected Truth for the sake of serving the gods of our times.

I couldn’t name one of her songs. I actually only know her from seeing a previous video of her screaming in favor of abortion during one of her concerts. So all of this was setting up for me to agree with the criticism she was receiving from the political right.

Here is what she had to say:

“We’re in a time right now where the world is really, really bad and really dark and people need empathy and help more than kind of ever, especially in our country. . .Love you all, but there’s a few people in here that have a lot more money than me. If you’re a billionaire, why are you a billionaire? No hate, but yeah, give your money away, shorties.”

Many of her online critics were quick to put her in the Bernie Sanders camp. That is, the group of people who complain about millionaires and billionaires until they become millionaires. Then, they suddenly lose all the fervor against millionaires after becoming one themselves. Now, only billionaires are evil.

Bernie is also known for being extremely stingy with his money when it comes to charitable giving. Here is Rev. Ben Johnson explaining this in an article from the Acton Institute:

“In his belief that philanthropy should not exist, Bernie has put his money where his mouth is. He [donated](https://dailycaller.com/2019/04/16/bernie-sanders-donations/) less than one percent of his income to charity in the year he became one of America’s “millionaires and billionaires.” This crept up to an annual average of 2.2 percent over a decade. (By way of contrast, Joe Biden [donates](https://www.forbes.com/sites/chasewithorn/2019/08/14/how-charitable-are-the-2020-presidential-candidates/#22078b0325ee) about nine percent of his money to charity.) “Unless we learn more from Sanders, which might put these numbers in a different context, he is a victim of his own critique: He is not paying his fair share,” [wrote](https://www.ncronline.org/blogs/ncr-today/how-sanders-charitable-giving-may-undermine-his-central-message) Charlie Camosy in the National Catholic Reporter.”

The Sanders types believe that everyone with more money than they have should be giving all, or at least most, of their money away. It’s the exact opposite of the view of Christian charity, which starts with the personal call to give and then preaches to others to follow your example, as St. Paul did.

There are many progressives out there who act this way. The problem is that Billie Eilish is not one of them.

You see, the editing of the viral clip that conservatives were reacting to misses a very important part of the video. Just after Billie accepts the award, Stephen Colbert comes up to announce that she is donating all of the proceeds of her upcoming concert tour to charity. He estimates that to be worth over $11 million.

For a 23-year-old with a net worth of about $50 million, that’s pretty impressive.

Now, it’s fair to note that Billie’s causes of choice are particularly woke wastes of money. She’s giving mostly to combat the popular climate hoax, which is one of the greatest deceptions, I think, in all of human history.

But that doesn’t change the fact that she is giving over $10M, roughly 20% of her net worth, away to a cause she believes in. It does, though, reject the idea that she is anywhere close to the same as the perpetually stingy Bernie Sanders.

The edited clip makes the assumption that Billie is telling other people what to do with their money, which is a hallmark of Socialist ideology. But she’s not doing that. She’s telling them to follow her example. And she is, in my view, pointing out something that Christian conservatives have become far too comfortable with.

Throughout the Gospels, we see Jesus offering some severe demands for the rich. “Go, sell what you have and give it to the poor” is a message we’ve all heard many times. Jesus breaks some hearts by calling for people to give everything they have, an act that some of our greatest saints have replicated throughout the last 2,000 years.

I am firmly of the belief that money or wealth isn’t inherently evil. Money isn’t the root of all evil; the love of money is. Conservative Christians like myself love to make this point frequently. But what does it mean to love money more than God and our neighbor? That question gets asked and seriously considered much less often.

I’m willing to say I agree with Billie Eilish. I do not think that Billionaires should exist. We probably disagree on how we should eliminate the existence of billionaires. Many progressives think we should tax them into oblivion. I think they should willingly give a lot of their money away.

I do understand that not every billionaire has $1B in liquid cash. I know that equity, real estate, and many other factors add up to that net worth. And I think that matters a lot in regard to taxes and legislation, but much less in the discussion of generosity, greed, and the Gospel.

I often say that we need to determine our values before they get tested. Bernie Sanders is a clear failure in this regard. He thought he was against millionaires until he became one. The same thing can happen to us Christians. We can criticize those who partake in a sin that has not yet tempted us personally, but then fold when the opportunity arises in our own lives.

What does this mean for the young Christian striving for professional and financial excellence today? It means that we ought to make as much money as we can while having a serious limit on how much we can personally spend.

If you can make $100M - that’s great. How much do you really need to live on? I don’t think you must live in poverty in order to be a good Christian. But I do hold a belief that is unpopular in some conservative Christian circles: there is such a thing as too much.

As Jesus shows us in the parable of the widow who gives her last two cents in the temple, it’s not enough to just donate exorbitant amounts of money. You have to give until it hurts.

Unlike the Progressives, I believe it’s up to the individual to decide when and where to give. But I do belief it’s a moral demand from God to be generous until it hurts and to recognize when enough is enough.

This is the challenging nuance of the Gospel. We are called to create a society where people have the freedom to do what is right and follow God, as well as the freedom to, within reason, do what displeases God. We tend to ignore the harsh reality that God can sometimes be more demanding than even the greediest Socialist politician we see in the news.

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"My daughter was really offended by your talk last night." 😅

"My daughter was really offended by your talk last night."

Someone dropped this bomb on me unexpectedly after daily mass this past summer. Although I can sometimes be a bit dicey and bold in my presentations, I was pretty shocked to hear it.

I had given a talk to middle schoolers the night prior on how our faith can help us in managing sadness, anxiety, and stress.

After mass the next day, I was walking in the convention center and was stopped by a woman who asked if I spoke to the middle schoolers the night prior. I responded in the affirmative.

"My daughter was really offended by your talk."

In a flash, I try to recall what I said that might have been the trigger for offense. Nothing came to mind. So I inquired, "Interesting. What was it that bothered her?"

"She said that you told the kids that if you experience anxiety, you can essentially pray it all away. And she has been clinically diagnosed with severe anxiety so it upset her."

"AH okay, I see the misunderstanding here" I ...

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I am a Charlie Kirk, not a George Floyd

Over the last few days, I've taken a lot of time to reflect on the importance of this moment for our nation and for the Church.

Here are further reflections on these recent events and what I think we ought to do from here.

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The Lion and the Lamb - What We Can Learn from the Life and Death of Charlie Kirk

Yesterday, we lost a legend in the Christian movement in our country and world.

Charlie was a great force for good.

We remain here on earth to continue fighting the same mission - advancing truth, beauty, and goodness against the evil forces who work against us.

I encourage you to battle the temptation to hate or become cowardly in the face of hate. More than ever, we need love and courage to guide our words and actions.

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A Lesson From the Good Thief

Sometimes you just luck out to end up in the right place at the right time. God’s providence gives you an opportunity you didn’t earn and you don’t deserve.

But that still isn’t enough most of the time.

This Sunday, we celebrate The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe.

The Gospel reading is the story of the Good Thief. The tale of the man who rebuked the other thief for mocking Jesus and spoke those words of repentance and faith from the cross. "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.”

That man is known as St. Dismas. Yes, he’s actually considered a saint in the Church. And he’s the patron saint of prisoners, the condemned, and funeral directors (there’s always one random one in there right??).

These two thieves who are crucified next to Jesus give us one incredible example of the choice of salvation in the final moments of the Passion of Christ.

Both men were justly condemned by their own admission. One openly mocks the Son of God and...

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Kids spell love T-I-M-E

This is one of the hardest parts of parenting, and I do believe it’s especially hard as a one income household.

When I was a kid, I went to school and both of my parents went to work. I never really thought much of it.

I missed my parents mostly because my dad worked 15 hour days six days a week and my mom also worked a lot of weekend overtime.

We go through this on a regular basis. Emily will be talking through their plan for the day, going to the library, a playdate, or maybe a picnic at the park, and Jordan will inevitably ask, “Daddy, are you coming too?”

It makes Saturdays so awesome when I can finally say “YES I am!!”

But man, it’s hard on those other days. “No, Daddy has to go to work” is our frequent reply.

Emily has tried to drive home the connection between my effort outside the home and our ability to have a home, toys, experiences, food, etc.

And Jordan will someday understand, but his desire for my time over toys is a really great reminder. This is ...

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You Get to Choose Your Attitude

I lost 20lbs in the first 21 days of Ranger School. The next three weeks, known as the Mountain Phase, are the most physically demanding part of the course.

I knew halfway through those three weeks that I was going to “recycle”, which is a term we use for failing with an opportunity to try again.

Some quit after they fail a phase. Others rejoice at the opportunity to rest, heal, and bulk up before the next phase begins.

The break between phases can be anywhere from a few days to six weeks. The six-week break only happened once per year, and I was in that unlucky group that had to endure that.

It’s not six weeks back at home to see your family for Easter, sleep in your own bed, and spend time with friends. It’s six weeks stuck at Camp Merrill in North Georgia where there is nothing but Ranger School.

I got to go to mass one time in 12 weeks while at Camp Merrill. We were occassionally allowed to use half-broken pay phones to call family. And we were able to read, exercise, and ...

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In this week’s episode, I discuss the mindset and habits that lead to financial freedom. I share practical strategies for making wise decisions when it comes to big purchases (like buying a home or a car) and emphasize the value of budgeting and living below your means...

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Jordan got to pick the costumes this year and we are in a BIG Dinosaur phase. He has worn it almost daily! 

There are a lot of hot takes about Halloween in the Christian world. My advice? Just don’t do anything stupid (like ouija boards). Let your kids be something cute, and have fun with friends and family! 



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Check out Helen Andrews’ essay The Great Feminization, where she explores how women rising in power across schools, media, and law has shaped our culture, from academia to “woke” trends...

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What Is the Real Value of Stay-at-Home Moms?
Addressing the extremes of what society claims this vocation is worth

According to Investopedia, the real income of a stay-at-home parent exceeds $200,000. But is that based on reality? 

For context, my wife stays home full-time with our children. We are very pro-stay-at-home moms around here—that should already be well known. 

However, I am very opposed to skewing the numbers to make a financial point. The Investopedia article does precisely that. I have two significant issues with it. 

First, it’s simply dishonest (which I’ll explain in a moment) and therefore unhelpful for those trying to decide whether to have a parent stay home full-time.

The second issue is that the article is materialistic in nature, focusing primarily on a financial argument for a decision that is fundamentally human, formative, vocational, and, for many, spiritual. It prioritizes money over the two most valuable aspects of having a stay-at-home parent, both of which are priceless.

Let’s address the dishonesty first. As you can see in the screenshot below, the article accurately assigns national average costs to the general work done by a stay-at-home parent.

 

 

This part is true: that's what you'd pay individuals to do those tasks. The problem, though, is that only the top 1% of society actually hires people to do that work. My wife doesn’t save us money by doing our laundry, cooking our meals, cleaning the house, or driving the kids around.

Why? Because if we both worked, we wouldn’t pay anyone to do those things. In most dual-income households, people end up doing all that work ON TOP OF their full-time jobs. Full-time working and parenting is an absolute grind, there’s no doubt about it.

My wife does save us money on childcare, but it doesn’t come anywhere near $130k per year for two children, unless I were hiring private trilingual tutors at the highest end of the cost spectrum.

Some two-income households have family members watch their children or other arrangements that cost $1,000 a month or less, so the $130k price tag to cover 14 hours of childcare per day is just absurd.

Now, I understand why people do this. It’s an extreme reaction to society’s growing distaste for traditional family values. When the world rejects the value of motherhood, we try to amplify it using the one measure the world respects most: money.

But money isn’t the best way to measure the value of the stay-at-home parent lifestyle and their contribution to the family. My wife would be the first to tell you that the most valuable part is the extra time she gets to spend with our kids.

By the time our children are 5, Emily will have had almost an extra 10,000 hours with them that she'd otherwise have missed out on. That has a massive impact on their character formation, familial bond, and education.

What’s in it for me, the provider? Besides the satisfaction of those extra 10,000 hours for my wife and kids, it’s the massive increase in leisure time I get because someone is managing the home full-time.

No, this doesn't mean I never help out around the house. But I don’t have to split cooking meals, doing laundry, and many other chores because she handles the majority of them while I’m working.

Then, when I come home, I'm able to enjoy the meal she's prepared and take over the kids for a couple of hours before we tag-team bedtime. I get to play with the kids every evening instead of washing dishes or cleaning the house. It’s a win-win: she gets her much-needed break from the children, and I get my precious time with

them.

That said, becoming a one-income household is definitely a financial decision. The problem with Investopedia’s math is that it distorts the financial bar of entry. 

Most approach the financial

aspect of one parent leaving their job

through a simple equation:

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I had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Dan Schneider on the latest episode of the podcast. Dr. Dan is a theology professor, author, former U.S. Army helicopter pilot and Gulf War veteran, and an active member of the Catholic evangelization and exorcism ministry. 

In this episode, Dr. Dan shares his insights on the spiritual battles we face both personally and within the Church. We also dive into his thoughts on Pete Hegseth's recent talk and more.

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